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Which is why, as a now-expert on the subject, this is my advice to all other extroverts looking to date an introvert.

All my previous boyfriends were life-of-the-party-guys—men who fed off my energy and swept me up in tumultuous emotions. I realized he wasn’t quiet because he wasn’t feeling my vibe; he was quiet because he was a listener who genuinely enjoyed soaking up everything I said. Almost three years later, I’m pretty confident I'm going to marry the guy.

Many people tend to think that introversion is a negative quality; it’s often associated with quiet, hard-to-talk-to individuals. Introverts are very easy people to talk to, especially in the proper setting.

In fact, people are often drawn towards introverts to have conversations about personal experiences and events they’ve experienced.

Have you ever heard that famous line from , "You are the wind beneath my wings? My partner is the rock I can lean on, the person I can depend on.

Considering my spontaneous decision-making and proclivity for uncharted territory in all aspects of life, having someone there to bring me back down to earth has been a needed anchoring.